>>8710
Sexuality is a trap. What is this word? Once upon a time there was no sexuality, only sex. Nowadays, people obsess over sexuality, not just the act of slimy genitals rubbing, but a whole bunch of associated stuff: orientation, identity, fantasies, positions, labels. Why? Because sexuality is an instrument of power. Itโs an idea which is a tool for population management, control, and surveillance cooked up by shrinks, demographers, medical doctors, and bureaucrats. By searching for a natural and authentic sexuality, we are falling into the trap of taking a tool of power and making it natural and normal and everyday.
In this brainmelting post-truth hyperreality, we have lost all sense of sex. The sexual revolution (counterrevolution really) has left us all searching for our true sexual and gender identity. We donโt fall in love anymore because weโre in love with ourselves. Yet nobody is actually having sex. They consume porn instead. The massive overproduction of images has killed physical reality, made it more and more irrelevant. People come out as gay, really they are just modeling themselves after a cookie cutter template theyโve seen in media but have convinced themselves they are liberating who they really are, that they always were this way. Sex isnโt even pleasurable anymore because it can never live up to pornographic expectations. The consumerism of sexuality has left actual sex in the dust, dead in the ditch on the side of the highway.
>I could genuinely never understand how people can spend time oogling at big butts online or things like that
The simple explanation is that people wanna see butts and pix of butts are made for people who wanna fap to it. Basically, fap material is made so people can fap to it. This is wrong. People are now shaped and molded by the media to consume fap material for the fap materialโs own sake. Production is like an idol, it doesnโt serve us, we serve it, and the same goes for porn. We are enslaved to the very stuff we make and that made up stuff becomes like a god to us.
>Not from the hollow, primitive pull to rub flesh onto flesh but for the intent of creating or maintaining a kind of bond or exchange between people, something that has meaning and contributes to a dynamic.
Thatโs a good idea but how do we do that in a world where meaning has collapsed? Not so much collapsed but imploded from the sheer amount of images, text, video being pumped out endlessly. In the distant past, sex was a ritualistic activity embedded in family, religion, spirituality etc. All thatโs gone and nobody wants it back. Weโre too addicted to jerking off.
Thereโs no real sexuality to experience anymore. We donโt need freedom to indulge in sex stuff, we need emancipation from sexuality itself. When something is fucked up beyond all repair, the sane thing to do is walk away and not let it define you.